They want a tall, dark and handsome man that has a great — not good — job; a man that can make them laugh but still make them want to pull out their wigs out because they are into a bit of trouble and a bonus of having superhuman abilities in the bedroom. So basically Kenyan women desire everything unrealistic in the man and this may hinder their chances of getting a man that may just be perfect for them.
It comes as no surprise that Kenyan women like being taken care of - otherwise the rise for need of sponsors in Kenya would not be a constant topic of discussion. From some women just being plain lazy to work hard for their own to them being to the desire of a comfortable life; Kenyan women have really made embraced the need to be taken care of and social media definitely does not help with that.
The 21st Century woman has a lot to take on because a good number of men want them to have their own thing going on for them while at the same time still be the 'traditional' wife that they want. Apparently Kenyan women tend to be more on the loose side especially when it comes to a guy trying to katia them. They are too quick to say yes.
We all know that men like doing the chasing so giving them a bit of a hard time is not all the way that bad. Do not be the yes girl to everything especially when it comes to sex. Once a guy gets 'it' in one night, there's a zero to nil chance that he will be looking for you to start a family - it's not bad to hope though.
Yes, he is a really hot guy, successful and makes you feel all sorts of things inside when you are with him.
On the other side however, he cannot seem to handle his drink and gets pretty abusive when he gets drunk - and he doesn't seem like he's going to stop. You know what to do but choose not to do it, so you end up settling and suffer alone with that one guy that you chose to stick by because you're a ride or die kind of chick. Yes, not every man is the same and not everyone is perfect but tolerating a man's bad behavior is a whole different kind of story.
Dating can get exhausting, especially when you have been doing it for a long time and are unable to find a man. Emotionally, having to share a man would be another challenge that women would have to contend with.
The Federation of Women Lawyers applauded legalising polygamy saying that polygamous unions were not regarded as regular marriages. Before the signing by the president, customary marriages were a source of pain for many women since they were unable to prove they were legally married to a man. While the numbers from the census do not show that it is a critical matter as it is in China or India, the pressure on women to marry and marry right can only get worse.
With the lack of mentorship and boys just growing up to be broken men, the challenges for our women and society at large continue increasing. For political reasons though, men from Central Kenya have been urged to marry many wives and not for the good of the rest of Kenya. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign in. Log into your account. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not?
You Move Around In Group- often times, you miss the advance of a good decent man when you move in group, be wise. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single.
Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend?
And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life? You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling.
In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
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